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Post by Hayley on Mar 7, 2011 21:04:37 GMT
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Post by The Animal on Mar 8, 2011 0:22:10 GMT
Dude, awesomeness. I'm gonna save this and read it later.
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Post by Hayley on Mar 8, 2011 0:32:56 GMT
It's actually a pretty heavy interview, it's weird reading that and trying to imagine what went on behind the scenes of b*witched
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Post by Robin Morbid on Mar 8, 2011 4:09:10 GMT
some how,I feel like I can relate more to Keavy then I ever thought I could.
Those two are amazing.
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Post by Hayley on Mar 8, 2011 20:32:54 GMT
I know what you mean.
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Post by Oz on Mar 9, 2011 19:52:50 GMT
Wow, thats one enlightening interview and certainly shows that there was quite a lot going on that we just never saw.
I think Keavy is awesome for talking so frankly and openly about depression and suicidal feelings as its something that so many people want to sweep under the carpet and pretend it doesn't happen. Depression is a demon that has stalked me at varying degrees since my early 20's and its not nice esp when people either dont understand or just tell you to pull yourself together, the ignorance is the worst when sometimes all you actually want or need is someone to understand. I've sought help in the past with partial success but I do think its not something that is cured, more that you learn to deal with it and I also believe no-one is immune from it. The thing that sticks in my head from my counselling is when I was told "Depression is not a sign of weakness, its a sign that you've been strong for too long".
Sorry to kinda unload but that interview touched me personally, thank you Hayley for posting it and, if she ever comes on here are reads this, thank you Keavy for having the strength to talk about something most people consider taboo, you're awesome x
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Post by The Animal on Mar 9, 2011 23:04:49 GMT
I suffer from chronic depression. It runs on my father's side of the family. There are days that I feel better, but it never really goes away. And, for the most part, I try not to feel anything at all, one way or the other. Therapy sessions didn't work because I don't really like to talk about why I feel this way (and how do you answer a question like "Why are you depressed?" when you, yourself, don't really know?). For me, I found that working helps. Doing something. Being productive. Also exercising. As long as I can focus my concentration and energy on a project, or on my daily walk, I don't have to think about my personal despair. Before I started going to school, and then later working, I would spend the entire day in bed because to get up would mean I'd have to face the day, and face my problems.
As I said, it never really goes away. No matter how happy I may seem at times, or how many jokes I make, it's still there.
Keavy, if you ever read this, I adore you, my dear.
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Post by Robin Morbid on Mar 11, 2011 8:38:39 GMT
I second that,I adore and admire Keavy for this. I really do. Speaking on my own behalf I can safely say that I suffer from some kind of depression,I've never gotten help for it so I don't know if making a self diagnosis is a good idea. Regardless,sometimes you just know,and when I read this article it really hit home. Some days are better than others but the days that aren't can be unbearable,and it feels like it comes out of no where. I used to think about a world without me in it,sometimes I still do. Like I want to disappear,that things feel so bad to the point where I'm not sure how to fix them or if I even can or not.
I used to just wander around aimlessly,not connecting,not doing anything. And I agree with Erin,I find that working and being productive really helps me. Especially with performing,I don't know where I'd be if I couldn't do it honestly.
It must have taken so much for her to come out of the shadows like this and be open about this. A lot of celebrities don't and it ends up blowing up in their faces,making things worse,so I'm so glad she stepped up and set the bar so to speak. It says a lot without saying much at all, I think. It's just admirable.
Thanks Keavy. (if you ever read this that is)
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Post by The Animal on Mar 12, 2011 0:58:32 GMT
I don't really have a desire to ...be dead, to end my life. I don't wish for death.
Nor do I put much emphasis on being alive.
I don't wish for death. I just don't care whether or not I'm alive. Is that clear enough?
Keavy is an inspiration (I hate sounding mushy, but she is), whether she realizes it or not. I have a newfound admiration for her that goes beyond her talent, looks, and friendly disposition.
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Post by Robin Morbid on Mar 12, 2011 7:29:10 GMT
It's clear. I know what you mean,sort of,I go more into a state of wondering how it would be to just not exist,if that makes any sense. That's just me though.
I wonder if she realizes the impact this has made. Either way,she's still an amazing woman.
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Post by Hayley on Mar 15, 2011 12:36:48 GMT
The impression I've always got from keavy and edele, is that they don't realise just how much of an impact they have on peoples lives ( in a good way ). This article is great example, it wasn't written to inspire fans but it has. The sad thing is, if the depression had got the better of her she never would have known just how many people it would effect.
At the moment they are barbarellas just trying to sell records, but the fans that have been around for the past 12 years see past the wigs to something different, which I can't quite explain lol but I don't go to every gig to hear the songs, I go to see them.
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Post by Oz on Mar 15, 2011 22:12:17 GMT
I get exactly what you mean Hayley, they seem less like untouchable stars up on pedestals and more like they are they are as approachable as the next person, no heirs and graces, more like someone you'd bump into and have a chat with. The thing I think that really symbolises it for me is that their mum and dad post personal messages on their FB page as if it was their actual own page - I dont know if that makes any sense, as you say its hard to explain but I get what you mean. In their eyes I can imagine they are just two women doing what they enjoy and its just a bonus that other people enjoy them doing it.
I think with Keavy opening up about her battle with depression, it just takes someone who people respect and admire to speak up and it gets people who otherwise wouldn't have the guts to say anything to stand up and share their experiences - you just need to look above and see that, somehow it feels ok to say "actually yes I can relate, I have suffered too".
As I think we've all said we have a deeper respect and admiration for her in showing an inner strength that belies her sensitive nature, I guess this thread has really become a big "Thank You Keavy" from all of us to whom her strength and courage touches personally.
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Post by jackfitz07 on Mar 16, 2011 14:19:39 GMT
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Post by jackfitz07 on Mar 16, 2011 14:23:06 GMT
Next one Keavy on her throne  Attachments:
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Post by jackfitz07 on Mar 16, 2011 14:24:41 GMT
Edele in a white leotard (Nice)  ;D Attachments:
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Front cover first 
